Category: Expired-N-Fabulous

California Dreaming – Part 1

    Life was good. Correction… life was GREAT with Pan! He’d realized that if didn’t make a change, that he would lose me, and that thought was enough to make Pan kinder and more loving. He never missed an opportunity to tell, or show me how much he cared, and for the first time […]

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Breaking The Habit

    Routine. We all have one, or at least we try to implement one. My routine included seeing Pan almost on a daily. I didn’t get my driver’s license until I was thirty-one, partially because of culture, and then later because when I asserted my want to drive, I couldn’t afford a car. So, […]

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Get Your Haram On

  Every morning, since meeting Pan’s parents, I would find myself waking up with such a high level of anxiety, because everything seemed to be going in the direction of marriage, and that wasn’t a route I ready to settle in just yet. I didn’t know if that was because I was apprehensive about Pan, […]

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A Verified V

I am a woman who reinvented her life. Not a part of it. Not one particular area, but my entire life. Everything has changed, and although some areas are still so unfamiliar to a mind use to consistency, it is quite remarkable to look back only a year ago at how different my life was. […]

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Week 11- You Make Me Wanna Be Romantic

Week 11. Are you still questioning how you made it this far? Like, how you haven’t caved and done a whole bunch of shit you’re wishing you hadn’t done? If so, I applaud you. This has been quite a ride, and with only two more weeks left, this week is all about reigniting that belief […]

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Week 10- Calling My Girls

Week 9 was tough; spending it, as you did, purging your life of your ex. Pictures were burned, sentimental items were either donated or tossed in the trash, and plenty of tears were shed. You’re probably feeling emotionally, and physically, drained from it all. It’s never easy to cleanse yourself of your past, so I […]

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Week 9 – Let It Burn

If you’ve been following every step in this From Broken, ‘To FABULOUS Journey’ guide, you have cried a hell of a lot of tears, reached out to your ex to get closure, erased all the memories you have attached to them, on your electronics, and then you took yourself out on a date alone. So […]

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The Heartbreak Queen

Here we are. Week 8. You have successful made it through 56 days of your heartbreak. Pretty crazy!  Bet you didn’t think you could do it, huh? You were convinced that you would crumble, and give up on life; yet, here you are, still going strong, or as strong as you possibly could be, considering the […]

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Week 6- Erase & Reboot

Memories are the hardest thing for us to erase. We cling to them; good or bad, as stubbornly as a child does to their Halloween candy. Especially, after heartbreak. The bad memories are put aside, and we focus solely on the good, and our yearning to be back in them with the person we imagined […]

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Week 5- But First, Let Me Take A Selfie

Today, is Day 1 of the day you start working towards recovery, and finding the self confidence you lost during your last relationship. It doesn’t matter if you were the Dumped or the Dumpee, the rest of this journey has you both (Dumped or Dumpee), standing side by side. This is the week you hang up your damn sweatpants, […]

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Week 4- Feel To Heal

Hello. It’s me: Your Heartbreak Coach. If you followed my post from last week, you messaged your ex, in the hopes of having a conversation either in person, or via telephone. Some of you may have received a response, and if you did, you waited the three days, as I suggested to meet or call […]

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Week 3 – First Contact

14 days have passed since your heartbreak. Bet you didn’t think you could make it here, huh? Now, I know you’re not recovered, because that’s not how heartbreak works. Come on now. The first 30 days, of your broken journey, is the hardest. They say time makes it easier, and believe me, that’s absolutely true, […]

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Week 2- The Fallout

Congratulations! You’ve made it through your first seven days of your heartbreak. This is one of the first of many hard stages you’re going to have to go through in your healing journey to go From Broken, To FABULOUS. If you followed the steps in the first week’s guide, you have blocked your ex to […]

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Hello Heartbreak- Week 1

Milestones. We hear about them our whole life, right? The day you get your degree, get hired for that one job, say ‘I do,’ and have kids. But what about the one milestone, that’s not on the list, although it has the exact life changing impact on your life: The day you have your heart […]

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From Broken, To FABULOUS- The Journey Begins

  Today is April 19, 2017,  and it’s probably the best day to start this introduction for the From Broken, To FABULOUS  journey I’m about to take you all on. Why? Because it’s important to turn days that once held so much meaning, into new life changing ones. So why does April 19th hold so much meaning […]

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