Week 5- But First, Let Me Take A Selfie

Today, is Day 1 of the day you start working towards recovery, and finding the self confidence you lost during your last relationship. It doesn’t matter if you were the Dumped or the Dumpee, the rest of this journey has you both (Dumped or Dumpee), standing side by side. This is the week you hang up your damn sweatpants, […]

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Week 4- Feel To Heal

Hello. It’s me: Your Heartbreak Coach. If you followed my post from last week, you messaged your ex, in the hopes of having a conversation either in person, or via telephone. Some of you may have received a response, and if you did, you waited the three days, as I suggested to meet or call […]

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Week 3 – First Contact

14 days have passed since your heartbreak. Bet you didn’t think you could make it here, huh? Now, I know you’re not recovered, because that’s not how heartbreak works. Come on now. The first 30 days, of your broken journey, is the hardest. They say time makes it easier, and believe me, that’s absolutely true, […]

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Week 2- The Fallout

Congratulations! You’ve made it through your first seven days of your heartbreak. This is one of the first of many hard stages you’re going to have to go through in your healing journey to go From Broken, To FABULOUS. If you followed the steps in the first week’s guide, you have blocked your ex to […]

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Hello Heartbreak- Week 1

Milestones. We hear about them our whole life, right? The day you get your degree, get hired for that one job, say ‘I do,’ and have kids. But what about the one milestone, that’s not on the list, although it has the exact life changing impact on your life: The day you have your heart […]

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Message to my EX

Feeling the itch? The yearning? The need to call or text your Ex? DON’T! Post your thoughts below instead of texting your ex. This will avoid any embarrassing messages being sent. You know the ones you send and then spend the rest of the week wishing you hadn’t?! Those texts. Doesn’t have to happen. I […]

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From Broken, To FABULOUS- The Journey Begins

  Today is April 19, 2017,  and it’s probably the best day to start this introduction for the From Broken, To FABULOUS  journey I’m about to take you all on. Why? Because it’s important to turn days that once held so much meaning, into new life changing ones. So why does April 19th hold so much meaning […]

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He Asked If I Ever F’d Around- My Answer Changed Everything

Dear Faiza, HELP! I’m so confused! So, a friend of mine for years approached me speaking about marriage and about how he had already spoken to his mother about me. I asked to get to know him a bit better before we proceed further. He then asked if I have gone all the way before, […]

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My Family Doesn’t Approve Of My Partner, Who I Shipped Back Overseas

Dear Faiza, Well, my situation is a bit messy so I hope you can shed some light unto me. I’m 24 going on 25 and I met this guy who is totally my soulmate, there is no DOUBT about it. At the time we met he was going through some problems with his government due […]

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Count-Less

Since the moment I spoke about meeting The Count, a man who had expressed his interest in me, by sending me a small and incredibly sentimental Penguin, it seemed everyone wanted to know every bit of what was going on between us. The Number 1 question everyone seem to ask was, “Have you gone on […]

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The Day Pan Flew In From Neverland

Friday, February 27th, 2017, is the day the unthinkable happened: It’s the day my ex, Pan, the person who said he would never ever come back, actually did. I woke up at 6:00 am to look at my phone, and when I did, I saw three messages he had sent me via social media. The […]

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Sparkle…Lots and LOTS of Sparkle

Can I say something to you? I somehow can’t imagine a day without hearing your voice. Call me corny, but this is how I’m feeling. I don’t know why, but the first time I spoke to you, I hung up the phone feeling so excited. I’ve only felt that two times, and now… a third […]

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Feel To Heal

Heartbreak is something each and every one of us, is going to go through in our life. Some of us will experience it once, and then there are those that are unfortunate enough to experience it more than once- as if the first time wasn’t bad enough. The emotions come at you like a tidal […]

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To Looking Back

We have all been told that looking back isn’t productive to our human growth. It’s the very reason so many of us keep our head forward and try never to turn around. “It serves no purpose,” it’s said, or so I’ve been told. But I have visited the past every day, since that one day […]

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It Just Feels Right

My day went as it normally does: a good hour workout, a longer than expected live feed, a conference call, and finishing up a couple of side projects; but there was something new added to my day: a text from The Count. I accepted his invitation to get to know each other better just yesterday, […]

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